 
							
					
															We will Never Serve Your God!
We will Never Serve Your God! At her father’s funeral, the pastor’s daughter (who was a prostitute) watched and listened as church members described all the wonderful deed
 
							
					
															We will Never Serve Your God! At her father’s funeral, the pastor’s daughter (who was a prostitute) watched and listened as church members described all the wonderful deed
 
							
					
															Four Lessons. When I became pregnant with our first child in 2002, my husband and I were inundated with advice and old wives tales. I recall my aunts saying, “You can tell whether you’re having a girl if you’re carrying high.” Or was it “low?” We had a boy. Two of them. One is now six years old and the other is four.
 
							
					
															Children bring the rediscovery of how fun it is to watch ants scurry on the sidewalk, butterflies emerge from a cocoon or experience the peacefulness of observing crawdads in a rippling creek.
Many times the gift children give us is just to make us laugh. A ten-year-old was helping his mother at our office one day when he saw one guy’s desk stacked high with many messy papers. “Looks like he’s got lots of work to do,” Owen observed. I got a good laugh out of that. It brightened my day.
 
							
					
															Son, I hope you understand
Mama has to let you fall
So you can stand up and be a man
Son, giving up on you is not what I’m trying to do
But your future is more than your past
A mother’s love will always last
Through your success and failure too
Son, I love you
And I hope you understand
Son, Mama has to…
Mama has to let you fall son…
….let you fall son
….let you fall son.
Son, mama has to let you fall
And today you may not understand.
Mama is letting you fall
So you can stand up and be a man
Son, stand up and be a man…
Lord, take care of my baby
I’ve gotta let him go Lord…
Son, you’re in God’s hands.
…stand up son, stand up.
You’re not a little boy anymore.
…stand up and be a man.
 
							
					
															A father’s influence goes to the fourth generation after him. A popular music artiste’s parents divorced when she was in kindergarten. When she grew old, together with her lover, she smoked crack in the presence of their five-year-old daughter. This artiste later died of drug abuse at age 48, while her young daughter died at age 22 for similar reasons. Great careers and, more importantly, great lives were thereby lost due to weak fatherhood.
 
							
					
															A Box Full of Kisses
The story goes that some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, “This is for you, Daddy.”